For a long time, and perhaps still, anyone listing the greats of the National Basketball Association would quickly name Kareem Abdul-Jabbar. Now 76, and having overcome several health challenges, he's still doing what he's done since retiring at 42: working for a better world.
These days, Abdul-Jabbar writes a carefully constructed newsletter which is well worth your time. Here's an example of the sort of message he posts.
Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. – Jesus, Luke 6:31 and Matthew 7:12
This quote is often referred to as The Golden Rule because
almost all religions and philosophies can be distilled into this one
universal idea. To follow this is to have achieved full potential as a
human being. There are hundreds of similar sayings from every religion
and most philosophers throughout history, many from hundreds of years
before Jesus or the Bible. (For a comprehensive list, check out The Golden Rule Project.) For example:
“Do not unto others what you would not have them do unto you.” Confucius (c. 551 – c. 479 BCE), Analects 15:23 (Confucianism)
“Hurt not others in ways that you yourself would find hurtful.” Tripitaka Udanavarga 5:18 (Buddhism)
“Do not do to others that which would anger you if others did it to you.” Socrates
“Not one of you truly believes until you wish for others that which you wish for yourself.” The Prophet Muhammad Hadith (Islam)
The
reason I chose to highlight the [Christian] biblical version over the other
variations is that most of the others approach the concept as a warning
about what not to do. But the biblical quote
frames it so that we should diligently “do unto others,” meaning not
just avoid harming, but intentionally going out and doing good. The
Islamic admonishment— “Not one of you truly believes until you wish for
others that which you wish for yourself.”—has that same vibe. One should
wish for others what we would want. But that still stops short of
actively doing. That little difference is what makes the biblical teaching the most challenging to follow.So
simple—yet, so hard. Sudoku for the soul. The main challenge to living
by this teaching is that we can MacGyver it whenever the going gets
tough. We find a sneaky workaround that allows us to ignore the rule,
but still feel virtuous: “That person hurt me, therefore they don’t
deserve my doing unto them.” “That person doesn’t follow the teaching so
why should I follow it with them?” And so forth. We’re ingenious when
it comes to tricking ourselves.
The thing is, the teaching doesn’t say “do unto some others” or “do unto deserving
others.” Just others. That’s the point. By following the teaching, two
practical things happen: First, you are overcoming your own biases and
emotional roadblocks to become a better person. This will lift a lot of
burdens from you and make you happier. Second, through your selfless
example, you are helping to create a world in which everyone follows
this teaching. You’re creating “others'“ who will also do unto you.
Sadly, this is the most popular and least followed teaching. Part of the reason is that many people can’t distinguish between doing unto others and imposing on others. Doing unto others is to treat others as they
wish to be treated. However, some prefer to impose their beliefs and
value systems on others instead. Which would be the opposite of the
teaching. The goal of these people is not to do good, but to feel good
about themselves.
I think of this quote whenever my
pettiness, ego, stubbornness, or biases nudge me to be rude, dismissive,
or even cruel. To deliberately inflict emotional pain on another is
shameful. It is a transgression we have all committed, but to pull out a
Richard Wilbur quote I recently wrote about, “The past is never past
redeeming.”
We can do better unto ourselves. We must do better unto others.
Yes, Abdul-Jabbar also has plenty of opinions about how the powerful act in the world, always tending to highlight both the need for more justice and striving for more peace. He's still a great among us.